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Arguing with a fool only proves there are two

When every ministers of Ravana try to advise him to return mother Sita to Lord Rama and close the matter as soon as possible still nothing has gone wrong but due to false ego Ravana did not hear any one.

Finally Vibhishana also tried to give Ravana a last chance and asked, my dear brother please return mother Sita and this way we all can be protected from the fear of Lord Rama else everything will be lost in front of your eyes only.

After hearing the suggestion from Vibhishana Ravana shouted and asked told Vibhishana as a coward and insulted in his assembly in front of his ministers.

Vibhishana was able to reply and give proper reaction to Ravana and many of the ministers were also supported to Vibhishana but Vibhishana understood now my brother Ravana has lost his sense and due to false ego he is behaving like a foolish person as it is mentioned in Bhagwad Gita 3.37 a lusty person lose his sense and act foolishly.

Vibhishana immediately left the assembly and went to the shelter of  Lord Rama because he knew that, "Arguing with a fool only proves there are two". It simply means if there is a foolish or senseless person and you are or arguing with him then you will be also considered as fool and it will prove that there are not one but two fools.

So, it is good to accept foolish people with smile and hear their illogical argues but never and ever debate with them other wise you will only lose your sense and calm better you fold your hand and move on that is the best way to deal with the foolish people.

More you argue with them more they drag in to you in dirt of meaning less arguments and once you become completely dirty they will be happy to know you are like him now.

Be intelligent like Vibhishana and without spending more time keep yourself busy in some other good activities as there are so many good things to doo instead of arguing with these kind of people where as there is no end result of it.


Hare Krishna!

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