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Replace Fear with Gratitude and depression with Appreciation

In today's world we see most of the people are very much fearful from the others than anything else. People think this person is my enemy and he will steal my whole money and if he get chance he can kill me.

Even a father does not keep faith on his own son and hide some secrets from him and even husband and wife do not share their phones with each others due to fear of their own privacy.

And once fear comes in our mind we become depressed in our life although we have lots of things but nothing works. A person goes into depression sometimes when he does not find anyone to share his thoughts.

Our Vedic Scriptures says, a person should always be fearless and try to appreciate others and these two qualities are parallel.

If one shows his gratitude towards others he feel happy and peaceful. One may think why should I pay gratitude towards others as I am the only owner of my achievements but in Bhagwad Gita 3.27 Lord Krishna says, a foolish person can think of a doer ship mentality because he is not the only doer as God, Nature and others also involved into it.

One should try to pay gratitude towards other and after practicing this we feel we are coming out of depression.

Try to appreciate person who has done something for you in your life and if you remember you develop positive attitude towards others and become humble.

Developing a quality of gratitude and appreciation makes a person happy, healthy and wise.


Hare Krishna!

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