Differences in opinion should not lead to destruction in relationship

Different-different people have different-different opinion it is not necessary that if two people belongs to same community or same family can have same opinion. One should welcome the opinion of each others and there should not be any destruction in relations due to differences in opinion.

From Ramayana, we can learn how to deal with if there are differences in opinion comes in our life.

When Vibhishana come to join Lord Rama, Lord Rama asked opinion from Sugriva the king of Kiskindha and Hanuman who is devoted to Him, what needs to be done, should we accept Vibhishana or not?

Sugriva advised, My dear Lord as you already know Vibhishana is younger brother of demon king Ravana and he must has come here to know the strength of our army, we should catch and punish him.

Lord Rama smiled and told Sugriva, My dear Sugriva if Vibhishana has come to know our strength, let him know all our strength. There are no demons in the entire universe can protect themselves from Laxman, he is capable enough to destroy them.

Lord Rama asked Hanuman, My dear Hanuman what is your opinion?

Hanuman with folded hand told to Lord Rama, My dear Lord I think Vibhishana is a very kind heart person and I have personally meet him in Lanka and without his help I was not able to destroy Lanka. So my opinion is let him accept. And the most important thing is, person who comes to you, you give shelter to them.

Lord Rama accepted Vibhishana and awarded him as the king of Lanka. 

Here we can see there are two different opinions from Sugriva and Hanuman but they both are trying to serve Lord Rama only they are not going to show their superiority, what they want is to how can we please Lord Rama.

So , if people have different opinions we should accept it, it is not necessary all the time we are only right.

Jai Sri Ram!