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Love or Hate?

When we hate someone we releases negative vibrations from our body, mind and speech. Our hate is not only restricted to that person whom we hate but also it impact to our near and dear ones too.

We can see from our Vedic scriptures there are so many examples of hate like Hirnyakashypau and Prahlad Maharaj, Mother Sati and his father Dakshya Prajapati and Ravana and his brother Vibhishana. They were actually hating from Lord Vishnu and Lord Shiva but due to impact of hate on their body, mind and speech they start hating from their own son and daughter. 

When Vibhishana started praising to Lord Rama in front of Ravana and asked to surrender and return mother Sita but due to hate of Lord Rama Ravana kicked off Vibhishana and thrown from his kingdom.

Actually Vibhishana was loving brother of Ravana but due to hate of Lord Rama his hatred behavior shown towards Vibhishana.

In our life we also do the same, if we hate someone and don't like at all but if some person talk good things about that person we start hating that person too.

That is why Lord Krishna states in Bhagwad Gita, who is dear to me ;

अद्वेष्टा सर्वभूतानां मैत्र: करुण एव च ।

निर्ममो निरहङ्कार: समदु:खसुख: क्षमी ॥ 12.13 ॥

सन्तुष्ट: सततं योगी यतात्मा दृढनिश्चय: ।

मय्यर्पितमनोबुद्धिर्यो मद्भ‍क्त: स मे प्रिय: ॥ 12.14 ॥

One who is not envious but is a kind friend to all living entities, who does not think himself a proprietor and is free from false ego, who is equal in both happiness and distress, who is tolerant, always satisfied, self-controlled, and engaged in devotional service with determination, his mind and intelligence fixed on Me – such a devotee of Mine is very dear to Me.

So conclusion is we should not hate someone else but we start ourself only, and we shows our frustration to our own near and dear ones better we should not have hate with any one and love everyone, this way we can be more happier.


Hare Krishna!

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