Is everything is destined?

Sometimes it has been observed many of us always blame everything to our destiny & we keep our-self in very safe zone as we pretend we have not done any mistakes.

Related to the same thing I am going to share you today's one incident which took place with me and the person who was not even considered to be with me.

There was no scope of that person in my scene but as the topic there is something called destiny, he jumped into it & I was little angry because I was frustrated by their illogical logic's.

I shows my anger on that person instead of showing my anger to the person whom I was dealing with and finally everything got sorted out & situation gets back to normal.

But once everything got settled down, I realized I did not deal with that person nicely and I must say sorry to him, I went to that person and sat along with him and said sorry for my anger & finally he also calm down and smiled saying, there is no need to say sorry.

Now here is the question, Is everything was destined, the person was supposed to get my anger without any reason and without any cause he comes in our picture then why I bother to say sorry to him?

So here is one famous saying, Man is the maker of his destiny.  Whatever incident took place was our destiny that can never be avoidable at any cost but one thing we can do is how we chose the situation we have two choices either we react or we respond.

Most of the times we react over any situation and later we feel guilty but instead we must respond and if we do it we can create our destiny that is in our hands.

You reap that you sow, so instead of reacting any situation be calm down and respond.

Hare Krishna!