How can we repay our gratitude towards others?

People now a days forgot our basic etiquette which we were used to follow in our old days. We are getting modern day by day and forgetting our own culture which were taught by parent in old days.

One things required while copying others, and that is intelligence. We copied foreign culture but didn't apply our intelligence what to copy from them?

In their culture their is no such things called etiquette, they calculate everything just by their own need. If their requirement got fulfilled you are nothing for them. But in our culture, we see from our Vedic Scriptures there are so many people who had sacrificed their life for others without any condition.

We can repay our gratitude towards others in following way:

1. By Sweet Words: If we don't have anything to give that person then one thing we must have is our sweet words. If simply we say, thanks to that person for his help he will be pleased by our sweet words.

2.By showing Gratitude: If a person has done something for you in past, we should never forget and always show our gratitude towards him.

3.By Inviting at home: If you are capable to invite that person then you must invite that person at your home and welcome him with food and comfort.

4. By always in touch with him: There is one very important thing is once a person has done something for you and if you remember him occasionally. He must be pleased by your remembrance.

5. By Gifts: Last but not the least, if we gift someone, that person can think there is a place for him in your heart and he will be pleased by your gift. It does not matter whether your gift is cheap or too costly.

So, if we pay our gratitude towards others the God residing inside other person heart will be pleased by your gratitude and you will get so much blessings from that person.

Making others happy, make yourself happy.

Hare Krishna!

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