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Our problems seems very big in compare to others

Problems in our life is never going to be away forever, it only change it forms. But going away from the problem is not the permanent solution, there is a saying, solution comes before the problem.

But often we lose our patience and give up, thinking we can never solve this.

In this world no one is free from problems, but often we compare our problems to others, how good that person is and how poor I am? He has no problem in his life, but I have a lot of problems, I am so miserable, unfortunate.

There is a very short but a meaning full story. There was a person always used to complain to God, Oh God! you have given me so much problems in my life, I am the only person who has that much problems and no one else in the whole world.

I am very much tired, I want to give up my life, what is the purpose of living if I have to suffer so much.

God replied in his dream, my dear son, I have a plan for you, when you wake up in the morning go to the tree in your garden and there are so many bundles hanging on the branches of the tree and that is full of problems of other people.

Which bundle you think suitable for you, you can exchange yours from that.

Person becomes so happy and when he woke up in morning he went to the tree and saw yes that bundles are already there. He opened one small bundles and saw number of problems was less but problems were too big he immediately closed and opened next one and finally he accepted no bundle is there with problems which has smaller than it's own.

He started thanking to God, sorry I think the problem which you have given to me is very much comfortable for me instead of others because I am not capable to handle others problems.

Moral of the story is, never compare your own problems to others, every individual has their unique problem and God has given us the power to solve each of it have patience, faith and determination.

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