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Handling the unhandled situations

In our life sometimes situation comes which we have never handled before and we become bewildered but  in our Vedic Scripture (Shashtra) it is mentioned how Unhanded situation can be handled, we are going to see on it and share few points and if we follow in our life surely we can handle every situation of our life.


  • People and Situations are out of our control
    • Be Calm
    • Don’t take immediate decision
    • Don’t deny the situation
    • Keep Faith on Krishna
    • Read Scriptures (Bhagwad Gita, Ramayana, Srimad Bhagwatam)

  • Can you do something?

We cannot solve our all the problems, some problems automatically get solved without even our effort.  So, sometimes we have to keep strong faith on Krishna if we cannot solve our problems.

  • SWOT Analysis

When situations comes in our life then we can check do our SWOT analysis by checking our

    •  S-Strength : What is our strength?
    •  W-Weakness : What is our weakness?
    •  O-Opportunity: Is there any opportunity in it?
    •  T-Threat: What type of threat is there behind everything?

  • Accept the Situation

We cannot deny the situation rather we have to accept it and grow through it. Once we accept the situation then we are mentally ready to face each and every challenges going to come in our life.

  • You Learn or You Win

If you accept the situation there is no harm but benefits are there ; you learn something out of it when you fail and you Win the situation when you become successful. So in both sides you are in win-win situation, as Lord Krishna spoke in Bhagwad Gita chapter 2.37

हतो वा प्राप्स्यसि स्वर्ग जित्वा वा भोक्ष्यसे महीम् ।

तस्मादुत्तिष्ठ कौन्तेय युद्धाय कृतनिश्चयः ॥ 2.37 ॥

 O son of Kunti, either you will be killed on the battlefield and attain the heavenly planets, or you will conquer and enjoy the earthly kingdom. Therefore, get up with determination and fight.

We all know in Ramayana Lord Rama was about to sit on throne and going to be the next King of Ayodhya city but the same night suddenly everything got changed and He asked to go to forest for fourteen years. Without any hesitation Lord Rama accepted the situation very quickly and ready to go to forest.

He went to forest and by the strength of great monkey armies; he got opportunity to create the historical bridge which we even remember for His great work and there was one weakness with Him and she was mother Sita and threat was Ravana the demon king who kidnapped mother Sita.

And finally He killed Ravana and his armies and saved mother Sita and entire world from Ravana.

So from this incident we can learn, if we try to handle the situations which we have never handled before and keep the above points in our mind definitely we get power and strength to handle it.

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  1. Bahut hi upyogi lekh Aaj ke vartman ke sandarbh me
    ..Hare Krishna 😊😊🙏🙏

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    1. Hare Krishna,

      Thank you for your valuable feedback.

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