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Clarity breeds Mastery

Yesterday I was attending seminar about children education, growth and their future and we are pleased to infrom, our temple Sri Sri Radha Giridhari has started a unique way of education which is known as "Radha Giridhari Home School".

I was thinking about what is wrong in current education system as there are many more facilities, high tech support system to educate children well qualified teachers then where is wrong and why children are not taking their study so seriously and why they are not clear about their Goal.

I used to go to the schools and colleges for Bhagwad Gita seminar to educate children to learn morality and value and use it in their knowledge in better way. Once I visited one school and I was talking to Principal about their education system and how they shape their students to do better in life.

In half an hour talk I just got to know the conclusion that school is manufacturing product instead of providing education to children. All the time I just heard from her mouth, how to make children a good Engineer, a Good Doctor but she never told that does all child have same talent to be a Engineer or Doctor?

If they are not so clear and pushing children to learn what they want to and giving pressure to parent also to make their children only Enginner Or Doctor and that is the reason if the student do not show their interest, they any how become a Doctor or Engineer but they have no clarity in their life what to do and rest of their life neither they become a Good Engineer nor they do something else also.

So, basically we all have to understand the mind of our child what is their interest and what they want to be. If child is not so clear about what he is doing then whole life they will be wandering and blame themselves.

There are few things we must do with our child on daily basis to give clarity to our children:

1. Observation: One of the ways you can understand your child is by observing them as they sleep, eat, or play. Look for the consistent traits. Which activities do they like best?

2. Spend Quality time: In today's working culture we all are so busy in our work/home that we even do not give time to our valuable asset which is our Children. So let's start spending quality time with them and be friendly with them to ask any questions.

3. Attention: Give attention to your child otherwise they think them self ignored and that's the reason many of the child fall into bad habits.

4. Understand the Brain of your child: By observation and daily analysis we can understand our child better and know about how their brain works accordingly we can give them a proper shape for their career and growth.

5. Listen to them: Give your children a freedom so they can any silly questions to you and this way they will open up with you and better way is to tale story from our Vedic scriptures.

So everything in our life needs clarity, until and unless we are not clear what is to be done in our life, we will never reach at our Goal.

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