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How to deal Smartly

In this world we try to deal very smart way in our day to day life, but sometimes we deal in such a wrong way we think we are in profit but actually we do our big loss.

Often it seems that we are only the smart and cunning and none other than me deal so nicely and being over confident we forgot to see all the aspects and only focusing on one thing we take our decision and become fool.

For any decision we have to keep our long term vision what is right and what is wrong? But we only think of short term and immediately take the decision.

According to our Vedic scriptures no one is enough intelligent to take the decision in his own so better take guidance from that person who can direct us well and this way it will help us to take a right decision.

I am sharing you one of the incidents of Mahabharata while Duryodhana was against Pandvas and wanted war. Duryodhana and Arjuna went to meet Lord Krishna. Lord Krishna asked to both, "My dear Duryodhana and Arjuna as you know I am not going to fight in this war so I have divided my help for both of you in two parts, one is me who is not going to fight and the other is my akshauhini soldiers (more than lakhs), So please let me know what you people will like to get from me?"

Duryodhana was little worried and thought about if Arjuna asked about soldiers then what is the use of Krishna for me and he was thinking like that way, then Krishna immediately told to Duryodhana, My dear Duryodhana you, are elder than Arjuna so will you please ask first what do you need from me?"

Duryodhana became very happy and immediately he asked about the soldiers of Krishna and then Krishna asked to Arjuna. Arjuna simply said to Krishna with his folded hands, "My dear Krishna I need only you."

Duryodhana was smiling and thinking Arjuna is literally a very sentimental fellow he is not enough mature to take proper decision and look at me how smart I am.

And after leaving Duryodhana Krishna asked to Arjuna, "You will be the loser, Duryodhana has taken away the Butter." But in reply Arjuna said to Krishna, "My dear Krishna why should I worry about butter if the butter thief is already with me."

Krishna smiled on Arjuna and told you are very smart and definitely you have done a good deal. You will never be loser.

And when Duryodhana told this to his maternal uncle Shakuni, Shakuni laughed and told to Duryodhana, "you foolish person thinking yourself smarter than Arjuna you did a very bad deal. "

So, we can learn from this story if we look around and think of every aspect and deal accordingly our life be successful.

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