Stop Judging Others

It's become our nature, whenever we see someone we start judging and in each and every moment we never stop ourselves to judging others.

That's the reason we never meet people with open heart, one side we talk to them but other side we judge, how he speak? how he behave? etc.

There is vibration created when we talk to people, if we have some negative vibration, it indicates to others, if something we have in our heart and talking something different, people get to know reason God is situated in everyone heart and He gives us indication what going on in others mind.

Judging others makes us unhappy and miserable because our mind always be restless and we can not be stable and if we are not stable, how come we will be happy?

A person who is able to control his senses and mind can be happy. And one thing we may ask ourselves, who am I to judge others? Who has given me authority to do that?

From our senses we can not judge anyone because it is incomplete. In comparison to vulture we can see only bit of it, and if we compare with Dog our smelling power is very less.

I am sharing you a very short story. There was a person who was very arrogant and irresponsible. I thought he is careless and he is good for nothing, but one day I saw him he was watering to the plants in garden. I was surprised after seeing this, and I asked him, you give water to these plants? He said, yes. That day I got to know, how wrong I was and how my mind judged about him?

So, finally I got conclusion, we are no-one to judge but we should simply observe and accept the people the way they are. This way we both will be happy and peaceful.

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