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Real meaning of Success

In today's world everyone is looking for success and for that by hook or by crook they want to achieve it. After getting that achievement they need more and more and if they do not get they become frustrated. And we see more of the so called successful people at some level they are not able to tolerate the failure and end up their life.

So, here we are going to discuss, what is the real meaning of success? First of all we must understand, Success is not a destination but a journey. In our life we may consider anything of success, but it means opportunity to implore our self more.

Definition of success changed as per our situation and time as a child, think I will be successful if I get good marks in my exam and the same child after getting good marks started thinking I will be successful if I get a good job. So we can see it is not fixed at some point we think if we get that thing I may be successful but after getting it into our definition of success got changed.

Success is not a tag which you can carry it whole life. And many people are worried about maintaining it, but it's not in our hands we can not control it. So many people live in denial situation they do not accept failure and if they get they blame others for it.

So everyone is running behind the success, but nobody knows the real meaning of it. Success means, whatever you have done your best in the present will try to do better in future. There is saying, "A successful person cannot be happy, but a happy person always be successful.

So Success means not to have compassion with others, but to compete our self, how can I do better than this on next time?

Success is not in the trophy won, It's also in the race run.

There are some qualities of successful people, this is the parameters we check and know our self whether we are really successful or not?

1. He is kind to everyone
2. He is peaceful in all situations
3. Does not quarrel with anyone
4. Friendly
5. Equal to everyone
6. Steady
7. Self-Controlled
8. Humble


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