Everywhere we see, people demand for changes in societies, countries, working cultures and in families. But one thing they forgot, they cannot make changes in other until and unless they do not change themselves.There is a story of one boy, he was falling sick frequently for his sweet eating habits, so his mother went to one saintly person and asked the reason why he is not stop eating sweet as he knows that is the reason I am falling sick again and again.
The saint looks that boy and asked mother to come after a week. Mother and son came after a week and met saint one again. Saint told boy,"My dear, please stop eating sweet as it is harming your health."
The mother asked that saint, "We came last week, but you did not say anything, why you took a week to say the same thing which could tell before too?"
Saint smiled and replied, "That time I was also eating sweet and I thought let me stop first before saying to that boy to stop."
So we can learn a meaningful lesson from this story, before changing to someone we must change our self. And we cannot change everyone instead we need to accept the person how they are. We always see the faults in others and start criticizing and hating them, but there is no effect on that person instead we make our life miserable and it makes our behavior to change everything according to our acceptance. And if we cannot change situations and people we get frustrated.
We must understand, changes come from within and if we change our self the whole world seems changed.
The saint looks that boy and asked mother to come after a week. Mother and son came after a week and met saint one again. Saint told boy,"My dear, please stop eating sweet as it is harming your health."
The mother asked that saint, "We came last week, but you did not say anything, why you took a week to say the same thing which could tell before too?"
Saint smiled and replied, "That time I was also eating sweet and I thought let me stop first before saying to that boy to stop."
So we can learn a meaningful lesson from this story, before changing to someone we must change our self. And we cannot change everyone instead we need to accept the person how they are. We always see the faults in others and start criticizing and hating them, but there is no effect on that person instead we make our life miserable and it makes our behavior to change everything according to our acceptance. And if we cannot change situations and people we get frustrated.
We must understand, changes come from within and if we change our self the whole world seems changed.
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